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Are You struggling to find real love?;9 ways to find the one.

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Since the beginning of time,marriage has been that one big dream that we all share.It is 'supposed' to give us family,security,love and a general sense of belonging.Getting married is viewed as the ultimate way of acquiring happiness and fulfillment.The part that's rarely talked about though or shown in romantic movies is just how difficult a marriage can be.You would be surprised to know that some of the loneliest people in this world are married.

You need to do a lot of hard work if you ever want to have that happily ever after they talk about.

The most important thing you need to do not to end up being another divorce statistic is to Marry The Right Person.This is one of the hardest and most important decision to make in life because if you mess up,you will spend the rest of your life paying for it.Below are a few guidelines to help you in your quest of finding the right one. 

1.Be Ready.

You need to get married on your own time.You can't let pressure from your friends and family influence you into getting married when you know you aren't ready.It's never too late,don't worry about what the world says,do it when it feels right for you.

2.Know Yourself.

You don't necessarily need to have your life figured out because we are constantly growing and changing,you however need to know who you are.You need to know what you will or won't compromise on.You need to know your limits. Marriages can push you past your breaking point so you need to have boundaries in place to protect yourself.

3.Be Realistic.

You will never find anyone who is perfect,simply because no one like that exists,despite what social media tells us to believe.You need to have realistic expectations.You need to find someone who is at least 80% of what you are looking for and leave 20% room for them to be human.If you are waiting for someone who is exactly what you want,you are going to be waiting for quiet a long time.


If all you have in common with your partner is how you feel for each other and that is the only topic you can talk about,trust me things will get stale pretty quickly.You need to be with someone you actually get along with,someone you have similar interests with.


There is a reason they say kindness can change the world,kindness can make anything better.There are going to be plenty of ugly fights in a marriage,you need someone who fights with a little compassion,someone who won't hurt you just because they can,someone who is a little kind.

6.Emotional Maturity.

You need someone who is able to handle difficult situations in a mature way,someone who will not share your problems with the world or throw a tantrum whenever things don't go their way.You don't wan't to be in a position where you are always calming down your spouse or cleaning their mess.A marriage is a partnership.

7.Great Communication.

It all comes down to communication,it's the one thing that can either make or break you as a couple.You need to be with someone who communicates clearly,someone whose words matches their actions.There do not need to be any guessing games,secrets or half truths in a marriage,You need someone who is transparent with you.


You need to have some kind of chemistry with the person you are going to marry.It makes connecting with your partner easier and it makes your marriage more fulfilling.


You need to be with someone you truly love and who loves you back.You need someone who is appreciative of all your efforts,someone who accepts you for exactly who you are,someone who understands you more than the world does.You must choose a life partner that is supportive,caring,protective and encouraging,someone who believes in your dreams no matter how crazy they may seem.You need someone who makes the hard times easier.


Whatever you end up doing make sure it feels right,listen to your gut instinct.When you find that one person that was always meant to be with you,you will know it.You will know what real peace feels like.You will know the ultimate definition of the word home.

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