Whenever I'm asked what I think was the main cause of the breakup, pride is the most important thing I can mention. Proud people never make mistakes and want everything to be everything to them. They don't care how you feel, the only thing they care about is how they feel. People who exhibit these traits won't last long in relationships because no man can get over their pride. Below are the common mistakes most women make that cause men to fall in love with them. If you discover any of these features in yourself, it's not too late to start working on yourself.
You try to change it or you don't accept it for what it is
Nothing can exclude a man from meeting a woman who tries to impress and then immediately tries to turn her into his newest "project" that will fix it.
You need to respect his time, attention, and what he does to make you happy.
Make relationships your main source of income
Women need to understand that relationships are a part of their life, not their whole life. Nothing suffocates a man more than a woman who depends on him for everything, has nothing for herself and is in dire need. This is called a connection, not a job. You can't rely on a guy for everything and expect him to stay in a relationship with you for a long time, let alone marry you. Men don't marry like that.
Don't take care of yourself and don't let yourself go.
It's a shame to see how many women think it's a good thing to stop exercising and shave your legs after they're in a relationship. If nothing else, once all is well, you need to feel more motivated to try to keep the attraction and vibrational sexual energy alive. Go to the gym and do moderate exercise at least twice a week to stay fit.
Compare your relationship.
It is one thing to have people in your life who inspire you in some way. But when it reaches the point where you are constantly comparing your relationships, at least you are faced with disappointments and disappointments. Every relationship is unique. Every relationship has its ups and downs. Basing what you have on what other people have is not only unfair, but also a sure way to do more harm than good to your own relationship.
Be passive aggressive.
Men are much more direct than women. If you tell him that nothing is wrong, look around. You are waiting for him to push you further. They will only cause anger and hatred. Be honest and straightforward when you face this problem.
I don't appreciate it.
Stop looking at the things he doesn't do anymore and see what he does, then admit it and rate it! The more you show him that you appreciate him, the more he will try to please you.
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