Men are expected to make the overt first move like saying hello, striking up a conversation, asking a woman out on a date, etc. But women in fact typically initiate this contact by subtly providing cues that such contact is welcome. In other words, women decide if and when men can initiate romantic advances.
Men who don’t understand this dynamic at best find themselves labeled as an awkward weirdo, and at worst become known as the creep who makes unwanted advances
Below are signs that a girl is interested in:
Is she laughing at all your jokes?
This has always been a BIG GREEN SIGN of interest for me. I’ve seen it both in most of the girls I’ve dated and also in girls my friends have dated. If she got a crush on you, she will most likely think all your jokes are super funny even if they aren’t.
Is she doing the “lean in”?
If she’s leaning in toward you, that’s a sign she’s eager to get your attention or get her message across. And in the best case, it also means she’s eager to get closer to you.
She shows a lot of involvement in your life
Even more than your best friend. She wants to know everything about you – the kind of rapport you have with your parents, what you do when you're alone, how many girls you've dated, the kind of friends you have had in school, what your real passion in life is, your favourite movies, what you like for breakfast – you name it, and she wants to know it.
She tries to catch your attention every now and then.
She won't take your calls one random day, she will ditch plans unexpectedly, she will wander off alone when you're together with friends, just so she can spend some alone time with you.
Look for open body language
If she’s standing in front of you, arms crossed and looking down at her shuffling shoes, then she’s probably not into you. Countless studies have found that women who are actually interested will make sure that they are open to you presence, not closed off and keen to engage.
Blushing is a sign she likes you
Blushing is one of the most common ways to tell if someone likes you. Either that, or you’re just making them feel embarrassed and uncomfortable. But women wear blusher to mimic this effect and seem more attractive to men – it’s all evolutionary.
Look out for: Blushing, but beware if she’s wearing make-up.
She remembers your interests and follows up on them
If you love dogs, does she send you cute videos?
If a woman is regularly texting or messaging you, it’s one of the signs she likes you – especially if she initiates these texting sessions as much as you do, and fleshes her message out with fun, flirty emojis. There are extra bonus points to be had if these messages are bolstered with videos or links that connect to something you love. This means that not only is she thinking about you, she has taken the time to remember your interests
She removes physical barriers between you
Does she move her glass to one side when you’re talking?
According to Jack Schafer Ph.D. one of the more unusual signs of attraction is the removal of (physical) barriers. The theory goes that someone who is unsure of another person will subconsciously put a token ‘barrier’ between them, like a purse or a coffee cup. If there’s no barrier – if, for instance, the woman you’re talking to moves her cup to one side, or puts her purse on the floor, then it could be a signal she’s ready to open up her life to you
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