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Divorce Affair

" It Hurt To See How The Effects Of My Cheating Destroyed My ex " - Njabulo Thabede

It hurt to see how the effects of my cheating destroyed my ex. I never want to put anyone in that position again, She is kind, loving and beautiful. I really hope she’s forgiven me.

I once dated a lady who has been cheated on and also later learned that her father used to cheat on her mother so I was always accused of cheating and at that time I was as straight as an arrow but past experiences made her to not trust me, cheating is not on at all.

It really melts my heart to finally see someone acknowledging the fact that cheating destroys people. I mean I have never been the same person after I have been cheated by someone I have been so damn loyal and faithful to and given them nothing but 10’s.

Men need to realise that admitting that you wrong and lost someone you love is not weak. We need to start acknowledging our feelings. And that comes with loving yourself, I m going through the same thing as we speak I just checked her profile now bro posts from the time we broke up shows how messed up she is and it's all because of me.

Cheating has never yield good results because it does destroys someone so bad, you cheat on your girlfriend and she keeps on forgiving you but in the end it will never end nice, you are destroying someone, you are hurting someone and you are turning them into someone who will be insecure for almost tge reat of their lives.

"The emotional and mental impact of cheating on the person in these types of affairs can be severe. People in affairs may feel increased anxiety or depression. They may feel overtaken by guilt. Feeling helpless or trapped in the situation are other common feelings."

tryand stay faithful to one partner and have a fruitful union for a lifetime

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Njabulo Thabede


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