When a relationship ends, especially if it's been turbulent, you usually have hundreds of things to say to your ex. Maybe it's a desire to express how much you miss him, or maybe it's something else. You have to learn to controll your lips. The whole concept can be annoying, but believe me when I say it's for the best. Here are some things you should never say to your ex.
1. "Let's just be friends." When you end a relationship, you should never expect them to come back into your life. If you drop them, it's a heavy slap in the face to offer a friendship slot. Being a friend can also be difficult. It's best to forget them and move on because your ex may have plans to destroy you and your future relationship.
2. "I miss you so much." When talking to your ex, be clear about your goals. If you don't want to see him anymore, the best thing to do is to avoid expressing how much you miss him. This gives them the wrong impression and can sometimes lead them to take certain actions that can damage your relationship. Telling your ex how much you miss him or her is the first step towards infidelity.
3. "I'm much better off without you." That alone sounds scary, and you can only imagine the emotional suffering you could inflict on your ex. You may disagree with what Ex partner did, but that doesn't give you the right to be rude. They also have feelings and are hurt.
4. "My partner is much better than you." These are just bad comments about your ex. Once you've connected with your new partner, it's best to stay with them and cut ties with your ex. On the other hand, some people just want to rub in with their ex to show them how far they've come. This is not a wise decision and can lead to many complications. This is where hatred arises and bitterness is born.
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