Single life is unhealthy(Opinion)See why
singledom is also really important for preparing you for future relationships. But how long on your own is too long?
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especially if you haven't been able to let go of some of the pain you've felt in the past.
Taking some time to yourself, and not immediately jumping from relationship to relationship, can give you the space to work out what you truly need.
That actually couldn’t be further from the truth, however.
There’s so much value in being single that people often overlook, when we should be embracing and appreciating it instead.
When it comes to dating and relationships, it’s hard not to feel that you are a victim. After all, others can be cruel; you will get hurt, and no, it isn’t always your fault.
But the reality is that we hold more power over our romantic destiny than we often think.
To a great degree, we create the world we live in, although we are rarely conscious of this process.
We can, in fact, make a choice whether to see our fate through a victimized lens or choose to be goal-directed and take power over our lives. We benefit from focusing on what we can control and not what we can’t.
When you’re not legally bound to another person.
And the payoff there is that if you do decide you'd like to pair off with someone, you know exactly who you are and what you want.
That way you're not trying to fix past mistakes with partners who are wrong for you.
We can become aware of the myriad of ways we influence the reactions we get from others, even the negative reactions. So, the question for the single person looking for love is: what are the internal challenges I need to face
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