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5 Things That Kill Love and break Your Relationship

5 things that kill love

A relationship is a business of two people. Therefore, it requires effort and commitment from both people to complement, respect, and live together. It takes a lot of effort, no doubt, because we often have to put aside selfishness and preconceived ideas in order to find harmony between the two.

It is about making concessions in many respects, but also about establishing and respecting limits. In this way, we will be able to establish a balanced relationship that can last. But what are the things that can affect love to the point of destroying it?


You should know that jealousy is normal. It makes sense and is reasonable to fear losing the person we love. However, when it is extreme, it can only have negative consequences.

Jealousy can make others believe that we consider them as an object, a possession. Moreover, it denotes a lack of trust in others and in ourselves, so that the most important pillars of a relationship (trust and respect) are affected.

In extreme cases, jealousy can cause one member of the relationship to try to decrease the other’s freedom, which is deadly for a balanced and harmonious relationship.

Routine kills love

Routine is definitely a relationship’s worst enemy, no matter how long. This is because it can cause boredom and other unpleasant feelings such as frustration.

Likewise, all this can lead to a deterioration of communication, constant reproaches, and complaints, conflicts, even insignificant ones, which end up dominating the common life.

On the other hand, routine, if left unchecked, can lead to the isolation of couple members who, although together, may feel lonely. This is called “loneliness in company”, an unequivocal sign that things are not going well.

For this reason, we must take care of the relationship and the love that nourishes it. We have to do things together, new things that give a special touch and remind us why we fell in love and why we chose our partner.

You can sign up for yoga, pilates, danceclasses together, devote yourself to each other, individually and in each other’s company; you can go on excursions, travel, prepare surprises… All you need is imagination and the desire to take care of and revive what exists between you.

The lies in your relationship

Trust is one of the cornerstones of a healthy relationship. That is why the lie is one of its enemies, capable of ending love.

Indeed, it is always better to speak the truth, in the right way, even if it can become a kind of conflict. It is always better to be honest, without fear, taking responsibility for the consequences. To lie is to risk breaking the trust that our partner has placed in us.

Lying can end love and end one of the most important foundations of a relationship. So once the lie appears, the other person will be able to doubt everything. Indeed, as the saying goes: ”  A lie can call into question all truths “.

Reproaches and complaints

There is a relationship between two people and no two people are the same. Thus, we cannot and should not expect the other to do everything like us. This is a different person, who has had different experiences from ours, and whose way of thinking and acting is different from ours, no matter what we have in common.

Therefore, it is wrong to expect the other person to act or behave the way we want or desire them. If moreover, we keep blaming and criticizing the other, we will only deteriorate the relationship and make it toxic.

It is much better to establish effective communication and discuss constructively in order to come to an agreement and try to do what is best for everyone and for the relationship.

Infidelity in your relationship

 Infidelity is betrayal. It is therefore almost an “attack” against the essential foundations of a relationship: trust, respect, love.

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