Methods for Identifying the Ideal Life Partner.
It can feel like a lot of work trying to find the ideal person to share your life with. There are so many moving pieces to a relationship–attractiveness, trust, honesty, communication, closeness, sex life, and so on–that it may feel like there is no hope in finding a partner that you can spend the rest of your life with.
However, I am here to inform you that there is still a chance. Because it's impossible, picking a wife or a spouse isn't a challenge at all. It is challenging because we approach it in the incorrect way. Instead of looking inward at ourselves and striving to become whole first, we gaze outward at the world in the hopes that we will find someone there who will finish us off. Consider the following when looking for a suitable companion:
1. Chose someone attractive to you, physically.
If you want a relationship that will survive for a long time, the other person does not have to be perfect, but you do need to feel at least some attraction to them.
2. Once you've identified someone you find appealing, the next step is to determine whether or not the two of you are compatible with one another. Talk to them and find out if you share that connection that will make it possible for the two of you to develop a relationship.
3. Find someone that has a good character.
You don't have to get too far into a relationship with someone who has a poor personality, only to find yourself in a rut because you've grown to love them and can no longer recognize the warning signs.
4. Discuss your goals in life.
You don't have to have the exact same aims, but you should check to see if they're compatible with one another. If you choose someone without understanding the path they want to take in their life, you run the risk of reaching to a point in your relationship where it can no longer be saved.
5. See how they are with their family.
There is no possibility that someone could respect you if they don't even respect their own family.
6. Be objective.
When you choose a lifelong relationship, the only explanation you may use mustn't be "because!" even though I know it's difficult. The initial rush of overwhelming adoration and excitement will ultimately pass, and when it does, you'll realize that this person isn't the ideal match for you, and it will be a regret that you chose them on a whim rather than carefully considering your options.
7. Involve your family.
It's possible that, if you reside in a western nation, that will seem strange to you, and if so, please know that I entirely understand. Be aware, though, that if the person says they have no problem meeting your family, it indicates that they are at least somewhat serious about you. If they are only interested in having fun and are not prepared to make a commitment to you, they will be quite resistant to the thought of seeing your family.
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