Thank you for taking the time to read this article. Everyone has a unique perspective on love. Some people believe it is simple to fall in love, while others disagree. What are your thoughts? When it comes to the word "love," we make a lot of mistakes.
I've compiled a list of pointers to help you avoid making the following mistakes in your relationship.
1. Love decision made in a flash
Love develops over time. Don't feel obligated to fall in love right away because all of your friends are getting married and you're alone. Take some time to get to know yourself. Never claim to be 32 years old and to know everything there is to know about yourself. There's still a lot you don't know, and you'll have to learn it. Others may pretend to fall in love in order to forget about their ex without getting to know the person to whom you want to give your heart.
2. Sex is not an option:
To my ladies, if a guy out there says that “you should sleep with him, just to prove your love for him”, show him the door because he is not worth being with. There are a variety of ways to demonstrate your love for your partner without resorting to sex. Who knows, maybe he just wants to satisfy his lust for sex and isn't looking for a long-term relationship. Don't assume that as time passes, he will realize you aren't interested and will stop talking to you. A hungry man will go to any length to obtain what he desires.
3. Love should be returned in kind:
Never force yourself to be with someone who doesn’t see your worth and is not interested in you. Under no circumstance should you tolerate any disrespect because you love your partner more than he or she loves you. Know your stand and when to leave. You deserve much more than what you are settling for. Don’t enslave yourself in a relationship saying that at the end everything would be alright, when the signs prove otherwise.
4. These two should not be mixed:
Pride and love are not compatible. Never lose someone you care about because of your pride; instead, lose your pride because of someone you care about. Don't be afraid to express yourself and don't think you're above any topic. Clear your mind by talking about anything. Don't be so hard on yourself when it comes to asking for forgiveness and forgiving others. In your relationship, make peace with your partner.
5. Do not enlist the help of a third party:
This is not the case in a situation where things have escalated and older people are required to intervene. When you're both having issues, try to solve it together and figure out what went wrong, or seek professional help. My friend was in a weird situation, where she had to be a third party with a couple, because she was a friend to the guy and was always there to comfort him. At the end, she understood the guy better and began to grow fond of him. The girl was very much aware because she would always involve her to talk to him, instead of addressing this issue between them.
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