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Divorce Affair

Women who come from this place are marriage materials - they hardly do this (OPINION)

When women cheat, it is for emotional reasons. Women do not cheat for physical reasons, and for the most part it is not for intimate gratification. It has been said that the need to bridge an emotional gap, to plug some emotional vacuum is what leads women into affairs.

So, for men, knowing that the woman has detached herself emotionally and that their time is likely over makes cheating an extra-uneasy pill to swallow for them. Whereas women become [inexplicably] ashamed and embarrassed when their partner cheats on them, men see cheating as an affront on their ego. They probably feel that being cheated on is the highest form of disrespect ever, and this makes it even more difficult to stomach it. Being married to a high-profile guy ups the odds he will wander.

The top reason women cheat is that they have fallen out of love with their current primary partner. Even if the love is still there, in general a woman who is unhappy in her relationship may be more inclined to cheat. Whether because of anger, home, financial problems, family trouble—the list goes on—they may feel cheating will offer them what their current relationship is not.

There is a place in Limpopo called Ga-Mamabolo. Ladies from this place hardly ever cheat. They cheat when they realize that their partners are also cheating on them. If you are married to a lady who comes from this place then you know what I am talking about. If you treat them with respect and you do not cheat on them you will be a happy men for the rest of your life.

Infidelity causes intense emotional pain, but an affair does not have to mean the end of your marriage. However, when both spouses are committed to real healing, most marriages survive and many marriages become stronger with deeper levels of intimacy.

The reason why married people need to stop cheating on their partners is because having an extramarital affair takes money. Even if you do not have to shell out for airplane tickets and hotel rooms, sooner or later you are going to have to pony up for meals, flowers, chocolates, theatre tickets and lingeries. Stop cheating!

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