It is commonly held that human progress is reliant on the actions of others. You can't be successful unless you have relationships with other people. Even if you're trying to make money by selling something, you have to first make money by selling something. You'll agree with me, however, that a person's failure can be the result of their own doing or the doing of others.
People frequently fail because of the people they hang out with. If you connect with certain people, you'll be rendered ineffective. The following is a list of a few of them.
1. Don't let friends take advantage of you by lending you money and then refusing to pay it back. These people are a part of your daily routine and routine is important to you. They will crawl in front of you if they need money to fund their irrational lifestyles. You'll be moved by their plight and decide to help them out by donating your savings in the hopes that they'll return the favor. Make a few phone calls to acquaintances to see if they'll return your calls. Associating with people like this ensures that you will never be successful in your career or personal life. Some of them may even curse you in an attempt to scare you away from asking them for money in the future. This is the best of Africa!
2. A significant source of stress in your life is your spouse (girlfriend). Rather than love, people in our society enter into relationships out of necessity. The vast majority of women suffer as a result of this. Men, on the other hand, are aware that most women become fantasies when they are unable to spend money. Males dating burdensome females should proceed with caution. Even though I've already expressed my opinions, I'm saying this in light of what happens to guys who pursue troublesome women. These women will stick with you as long as you have something valuable to give them as a reward. It's impossible to repair a relationship once you've lost everything you've worked for.
3. Members of your own family fall into the category of potentially dangerous individuals. They say that "blood is thicker than water." Our African civilizations do not fit the definition of this adage. It's possible that members of your own family are complicit in your demise. To the extent that those close to you lack financial security, this is especially important. You shouldn't, however, break away from your family because of this. Simply be on the lookout for danger.
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