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Here are 6 reasons why you should not marry late

If you want to enjoy your marriage, you need to have access to the things that make life worth living. True love is a wonderful thing that contributes greatly to the enjoyment of one's life. I'm sure you were hoping I'd prioritize spending money. True love is more essential than money, of course. When it comes to money, many people assume that you need to have everything you desire before you get married. Everyone grows older as time passes.


Before getting married, you shouldn't have everything you want. In truth, "desire" is the very essence of existence. As a result, you should aim to have only what you need rather than everything. The essence of life may be lost if you have everything. Having everything you want in life before getting married is a bad idea. Here are some reasons why waiting till later in life to get married is a bad idea.


1. You can have a hard time getting used to some necessities.


When you're young, you're full of energy and enthusiasm to take on the world. Even if things go tough, you still have your youthful stamina to get through them. However, as an elderly couple, you may have a hard time adapting when necessary.



There is a possibility that your zeal will be sapped or diminished during your lifetime.


We get older as time passes. And as we get older, we tend to lose enthusiasm for certain pursuits. When you're a kid, you're full of energy and want to do everything. But raising your child, you desire the power and financial security that comes with being a young parent while still allowing yourself to grow along with them. However, if you wait until you're in your 60s or 70s to be married, you won't have the same kind of passion. There will be no more grit, tenacity, or resolve.


If you're unable to spend quality time with your spouse, it could cause friction in your marriage.


You may be frail as an elderly couple. You'll have a hard time making ends meet if you don't have the money you've been chasing since you were a young adult and married late. However, you will be doing this as you grow older and your family will become more reliant on you.


You may have been able to get through this stage easier if you married earlier in life.


Intimacy is lacking or decreased.


Your focus will change to your children as you get older as a spouse. Only those are important at this point. If you and your partner have already had the amount of children you expected to have, romance may be out of the question.


You won't be as close to your lover as you once were. There will be no more adoration, passion, lovemaking, or intimacy.


There's a chance you'll lose your enthusiasm for playing with your kids.


Playing with your kids is a great approach to build a stronger bond with them. It piques their interest in being in your company. You may have difficulty playing with your grandchildren as you get older. Being married later in life has its drawbacks, and this is one of them.


Your children may not be raised the way you want them to be.


You have hopes and aspirations for your children when you're a kid. Those dreams may be lost if you wait too long to be married, which will have an impact on your children. You may not be able to do the things you wanted to when you were younger because you are now in your senior year of life.


Lack of money or the desire to have enough money cause the majority of late marriages, it is obvious. As crucial as it is to have a comfortable financial situation before getting married, getting married early allows you to have more control over how you raise your children.


If you have to earn money before getting married, make sure it's enough to support your family and not to have the world's wealth, unless you're not of legal age to wed.

When it comes to getting married, the ideal age range is between 21 and 25. The age range between 21 and 25 is a good time to be married if you are capable of taking care of your family comfortably. Getting married in your 50s is possible if you wait until you are among the world's wealthiest people.


Now is the time to start molding your children into the people you envision for them in the future.

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