When a lady rejects your approaches via text message, it may be a very sad experience for both of you. You may end up doing or saying something unpleasant to her as a result of the rejection, which you may later come to regret. This post will discuss four things that a male should do when confronted with a girl's textual rejection, or more specifically how to deal with rejections from women, in today's article.
1. Please respond as soon as possible.
When men receive rejections from women through text message, one of the first things they do is use derogatory language in their response to the woman, which is extremely offensive. As a gentleman, you must accept the fact that, at some time in your life, you will be rejected by a lady through text message when you approach her about a romantic relationship. When this happens, you should avoid taking it personally and responding in a negative manner.
Nonetheless, I believe that responding courteously and generously is one of the most beneficial alternatives available to you. It's elegant and gives little room for someone to point out flaws. In addition, if the rejection was the result of a factor outside of your control, such a response leaves the door open for her to reach out to you at another time. Because the vast majority of men are incapable of dealing with rejection. In the process of reacting, they appear arrogant, which helps to legitimize the girl's decision to reject them. In this particular instance, you are acting in a different manner, and she will notice. In contrast to taking an angry stance, you can leave a situation on a positive note, which may allow you to regain some control over the issue. You made the decision to be pleasant and courteous in your response. Rather of succumbing to the normal sentiments of rejection, you chose a more healthy option for your own well-being, and it is really powerful.
2. You have the option of saying absolutely nothing.
In many cases, rejection through text message gives only a sliver of closure. It might be phrased in a polite or a harsh manner. Although it may regard your sentiments, it may be harmful and disrespectful to you instead. It differs from person to person. The majority of the time, she is powerless to change her mind. A woman would typically reject you only if she is convinced that she has made the right decision. Attempting to extract any benefit from the circumstance is fraught with danger. If you can't bring yourself to respond indifferently and courteously, the best response is to say nothing at all.
She didn't accept your proposal, so there's nothing else to say, right? Instead of putting oneself in a position to be patronized, ridiculed, humiliated, or rejected further, say absolutely nothing. Closure does not necessarily necessitate a mutually respectful farewell.
We have to learn to go on without saying anything every time. It is necessary for us to say farewell to one another internally.
3. Do not extend an invitation to become friends.
If you are solely interested in this girl in a romantic sense and believe that being friends with her is the next best thing to winning back her attraction and attention, you are completely incorrect! When you're in this scenario, it's one of the greatest blunders you can do. What generally occurs is that your attraction to this girl grows exponentially, while her residual interest to you diminishes significantly.
As a result, she acquires a male buddy with whom she has absolutely no interest, while you suffer from a typical case of blue balls (for the lack of a better term). If you agree with the rejection and feel the same way, you might express your want to become friends with the person who rejected you. Making friends with this girl and eventually meeting one of her female friends who resonates with you is perfectly acceptable and even encouraged. Offer to be friends only if you are sincere in your intentions.
4. Do not ask for an explanation unless absolutely necessary.
Sometimes all I wanted from a girl was an explanation for why she had concluded that we wouldn't work out together.
I believed that doing so would allow me to bring the issue to a close, or at the very least learn something from it that would allow me to improve my approach in the future. Many times, I never received an explanation as to why I had been rejected. My understanding of the event was only completed some weeks later after reviewing it in my mind from an objective and analytical perspective. This practice really aided my ability to date more successfully. Most females, on the other hand, don't want to further hurt your feelings. They want to reject you in the most non-destructive manner imaginable.
As a result, there is a good probability that, in order to save your feelings, they will not divulge the true reason for her rejection. It's quite OK to inquire. However, if you get the impression that she isn't going to be brutally honest, refrain from pressing the issue. You'll get over it eventually.
Even though you are experiencing severe emotional distress at the moment, take comfort in the notion that time cures all wounds. You won't be experiencing this level of discomfort for long. When the passage of time has passed, you will have moved on, and when you meet someone fresh and interesting, this will be nothing more than a distant memory.
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