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Does Love Alone Guarantee The Success Of Any Relationship?

Unfortunately, no. Love alone will never ensure the success of a marriage or long-term living arrangement.


Many people join relationships with these erroneous assumptions. The second they discover they aren’t ‘gaga’ in love anymore, they assume the relationship is shattered and over, and they need to get out. No! There will be days, or weeks, or maybe even longer when you aren’t all mushy-gushy in love. There have been several instances when I wasn’t my girlfriend ’s favorite person, she would look at me like “Ugh, you’re still here….” That’s normal! And more importantly, sticking it out is worth it, because in a day, or a week, or maybe even longer, you’ll look at that person and be so thankful.


Because a love that’s alive is also continually evolving. It grows and contracts and mellows and deepens. It’s not going to be the way it used to be or the way it will be, and it shouldn’t be. It’s conceivable to fall in love with somebody who has different aims or life goals that are antithetical to our own, who embraces different philosophical beliefs or worldviews that clash with our sense of reality.


Falling in love with someone doesn’t necessarily indicate they’re a wonderful partner for you to be with over the long term.


You must examine a person’s values, how they treat themselves, how they treat people close to them, their objectives, and their worldviews in general. We have a tendency to neglect the core values like as compatibility, respect, loyalty, financial capabilities, expectations and views, and commitment in the direction of the person whom we profess to "love."


Love is only one of the many things that go into making a marriage successful and fulfilling for both partners. Boundaries, constraints, non-negotiables, and trade-offs are inextricably linked to any good love relationship. This is an inevitable part of love, marriage, and any other kind of connection. It is essential for any marriage to have a secure financial foundation; in the absence of this, the union will not last very long.


Paying for day-to-day living expenses, putting money down for retirement, the enormous expenditure of raising children if the couple chooses to have them, homeownership, insurance, inheritances, and dealing with financial emergencies when they arise are all responsibilities that come with marriage. The majority of the time, this entails student debt. Eldercare obligations later in life. There are a myriad of monetary considerations to make before to getting married or moving in together for an extended period of time. Your financial stability as a married couple is one of the numerous factors beyond love that will determine how successful your marriage is.


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