An installer talked to me the other day about whether or not he should give his girlfriend a surprise birthday party. "She's 40 now, so I don't know how she feels about it," he said. I figured she might not want attention drawn to a birthday that ends in a zero, so I asked him, "Is she a positive person? Do you usually see things on the bright side?"
After reaching for his phone, his face was immediately lit up. "Just look at her face." He held up his phone loaded with the photo of his girlfriend, who looked no older than 27. "She makes every day better," he said as he showed me her picture -- the most apt words I have ever heard to describe a successful relationship - at least from the perspective of a man.
This philosophy can't be any simpler. I've listened to men discuss relationships and girlfriends, what they like and don't like, what they want and don't want, and even what drives them crazy. But, nobody ever described it better than this. It's a statement that every man wants to hear. If he's lucky enough to meet a lady who understands this concept and stands by him in the same way, he stands by her to make a difference in his life.
Sadly, that kind of love no longer seems in fashion these days. Relationships today seem to be viewed as an eternal scorecard of actions and inactions that eventually end the relationship. It is no longer fashionable to consider romantic relationships as precious, something that must be nurtured to endure or thrive for a very long time.
This powerful trend can't be stopped, so ladies, here are some guaranteed tips to get rid of a dude for good. And by the way, these tips can be used by guys, as well.
1. Don't learn about emotional intimacy.
To do that, you would have to find someone with whom you can build trust and be yourself. Worst of all, you would have to accept him as he is and celebrate him for who he is.
2. You don't respect him.
Do not give him the respect he deserves. Do not value him. Do not listen to his concerns. Please do not draw any conclusions from his behavior.
3. Don't like him at all.
To ensure he's miserable and fading away from inside, let him know that you're not fond of him.
4. You should complain about him.
Let your friends know what a loser he is, and never sincerely praise him. In addition, you can openly expect him to screw up.
5. Please do judge him.
Remember that every day brings a new chance to find flaws in him, so do whatever it takes to keep him on the defensive.
6. My favorite Blame him for everything.
If you're divorced, blame him for that. If your last boyfriend treated you poorly, blame him for that too. If your kids aren't acting right, blame him.
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