When you get married in our part of the world, you are expected to immediately collect your belongings and go to your husband's home. It is, in fact, the finest decision, but when individuals move in together, small problems arise because they did not properly prepare before moving in together.
In this essay, I'll discuss what causes these issues and what couples should have before moving in together.
Most people wanting to married make the mistake of focusing solely on their wedding and neglecting their marriage.
More than the materials needed for their marriage after the celebration, they consider what to dress, where to hold their reception, what to offer at the reception, and how many people they will invite.
So many people become engaged or married, and they move in together while asking their neighbors for ordinary items that are less expensive even than the least expensive item they purchased for their wedding, such as the bride's hand gloves.
The truth is that dating your significant other, and even occasionally living with them, is a unique scenario.
So, I hope this helps you make the move a little easier, or that if you're already living together, it helps you get rid of some of those pesky arguments that just won't go away!
So, if you want to live together, one of the first things you'll need is a room, if not a whole house. When you live with your family as a man, you can't plan to marry.
Genesis 2: 24 summarizes the agreement between Adam and Eve. "Therefore, a man shall leave his father and mother and cling to his wife, and they shall be one flesh."
It's possible to start small in life and gradually build things up. As a result, as time passes, more pieces of furniture can be purchased one by one.
The bed and two pillows you and your wife will sleep on after a long day at work to relax your minds and enjoy your sexual life. S*x can be done anywhere in your room, but it is best on your bed.
As well as blankets, bedspreads, and clothing to keep warm.
You will also require cooking equipment, plates and bowls, as well as silverware to assist you in both cooking and eating. When they have company, many women go to their acquaintances to borrow such items.
That is why there is a Ghanaian proverb that says, "If you think you're ready for marriage, buy your plates."
After you've gathered all of your culinary utensils and supplies, you'll need a fan. There are two reasons why a fan is necessary. For starters, all of your increased body heat in bed adds up. As a result, to provide a kind of air for us to enjoy our sleep, as well as to serve your visitors when they arrive during a hot season.
If you don't have enough money to buy a couch, you can get single seats, such as the plastic ones, to begin started. And as the days, months, and years pass, you strive hard to make a difference.
Finally, as you continue to work, you must have some money in your savings account so that you do not have to rely on friends and relatives for financial assistance after your marriage.
Finally, remember that marriage is a completeness, not a competition, so never force yourself to marry before you are ready.
Thank you for sticking with me all the way to the end. Please leave a comment, as well as share and follow this blog for more relationship topics.
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