Is it normal for my boyfriend to be obsessed with my past?
Me and him have been together for a little over 2 years now. The biggest ‘issue’ in our relationship is his obsession with my previous partners. Throughout varsity years I was single (and also depressed) whereas he was in a 4 year long relationship, due to this I only have 2 more s-xual partners than him. From the beginning he’s been very insecure about this.
Over the years he had asked me constantly for details that I’ve told him make me uncomfortable but he doesn’t care, but I’ve ALWAYS obliged and told him everything and when I’m tired of answering the same questions over and over he gets mad or he’ll get mad at my answers and lowkey shame me or make me feel lesser and just say over and over how he has issues getting over this.
This year he’s been better limiting it to a few times a month which I know is still ridiculous and He always gets kind of bothered during these times and short with me.
This has been building up and building up and I don’t see it ending. This is the biggest cause of unhappiness for me in our relationship, amongst a few other things and he knows it. I am seriously debating on ending things but I of course care for him and his family and we talk about a serious future often, I’m just at a loss this has been in the back of my mind for a little while now I don’t know what to do. Is this normal?
Should I call it quits or is there other advise you can give me? Thank you.
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