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My husband's revenge over my affair left me speechless

KINGNEEZY
By KINGNEEZY | self meida writer
Published 18 days ago - 7173 views

When I married Robert eight years ago, I was never "madly in love" with him. My reasons for marrying him were simple i was pregnant and felt obliged to do the right thing.

When our son was three, I met a guy through some friends and had an affair but now I very much regret my actions. I didn't quite think things through. I thought I didn't love Rob, and I also thought he didn't love me. So, I figured, what was the point in us staying together?

I met Tim through my best friend. He was friends with her partner and was a few years younger than me and single.

For the first time since having my son, I felt really free and happy. We'd meet for drinks, and I'd just tell Rob it was official 'work drinks' and that everyone in the office was attending. But, the truth was, it was only Tim and me – and that's how our affair started.

We hired hotel rooms and sometimes, if his roommate was out, we'd stay for hours at his apartment. I felt guilty but, at the same time, I felt like I deserved this new love affair because my marriage had gone so stale since I'd become a mother. Rob no longer looked at me like a woman, he just saw me as our son's mother, and I was craving attention and affection.

I definitely chose the wrong man to have an affair with. About six months into our relationship, Tim ditched me for another woman. I was devastated. And because I was such a wreck, I ended up confessing to Rob. He was mortified.

I hurt him so much. I begged him to forgive me. He agreed he was partly to blame for me cheating on him because he had neglected me for so long. It was because he treated me with such indifference that I was tempted by this new relationship.

We had marriage counselling and things were okay for a while. I started to heal from my breakup with Tim, and I was sure Rob was feeling a lot better and that he'd forgiven me.

Through all of this, my best friend Gina was my shoulder to cry on. What I didn't realise was that she was also a shoulder for Rob to cry on. And I was very puzzled that, about a year later, she drifted away from me. She didn't return phone calls and, eventually, I got the hint she didn't want me in her life.

Then one day Rob told me he wanted a divorce. I was shocked I thought we were doing okay? And then he dropped the biggest bombshell of all – he and Gina were in love and they were moving in together.

He also said I deserved everything that happened to me after what I had put him through. So, even though he didn't say it was a payback, it really felt like it.

According to Rob, he and Gina fell in love and that's how it is. I don't care what he says — I refuse to believe those two will last, and once Rob has felt like he has gotten even for the way I treated him, then he will find his way back to me again. I am sure of this.

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