There comes a time in life when getting married is necessary. It follows meeting the person you are madly in love with. You see, a lot of individuals do want to get married, have husbands and wives, children, gorgeous homes, and cars, but money and finding compatible partners stand in their way.
There are qualities a man looks for in a lady before he chooses to pay lobola and make it official. Respect comes first, and everything else comes after. For the simple reason that each person has different preferences, some men desire spouses who are attractive while others are content with their wives' manners.
The hardest choice a man will ever make is which wife is best for him. There are a lot of women in the world, but some of them do not want to get married and have their own reasons for doing so.
In South Africa, there are plenty of potential spouses to choose from, but a man needs to spend his time getting to know them since most women are only interested in how wealthy a man is. Rushing into things can occasionally lead to regrets.
Funny enough, our mothers frequently pressure us as well by requesting "abo makoti" (daughters-in-law) who will have the grandchildren before they pass away. Tragically, they even frequently decide for us who is right and who is wrong.
A wonderful daughter-in-law, in my opinion, is someone who respects you and every member of your immediate family, especially your mother and father, and is down to earth. A perfect person doesn't mind occasionally using her culinary talents to prepare meals for your parents, and she always keeps an eye on them, even when they don't feel well.
Umakoti is not permitted to wear revealing or skimpy clothing to your parents' home since she is aware that there are certain outfits appropriate for the bedroom and others that are appropriate for visiting in-laws.
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