We all wish to be in happy relationships. Thou some factors of the world leads us to miserable relationships and we end up not being happy for the rest of our lives all because of the little mistake we make by choosing who we date.
Today I'll outline 5 thing's that leads to break up. Maybe this will help you know where your relationship with someone stands.
5 causes of Breaking up with someone.
1. One's intentions towards another.
Well I've said it before that the worlds factors can lead us to miserable relationships. By world factors i mean things like s.e.x or Money.
One thing is to know your partners intentions like does he/she see a future with you?, is she/he in it to gain something?
"Because not knowing someone's intentions can destroy your being by making you not to believe in love again", by the worlds famous Psychologist Anord Zeal.
2. Different Lifestyles.
If you and your parter live different lifestyles then it is more likely not to work out. Because you may cause him/her to adapt to your life style and that will lead to sadness.
Dating someone whose lifestyle is different from yours will cause you to compromise a lot. Like you will suffer and the other one which is your partner will 0% be affected.
3. Friends and family.
If your friends or your family doesn't approve of the person you are dating then they will not respect him/her. Imagine not being respected by the people closest to your partner! Like that will make you feel leftout in most cases and it just wont work out.
As a writer wain Loren once said," a serious relationship is not built by two people but it is built by people closest to them which may be family or friends".
4. Not knowing the difference between love and lust.
Please note that just because you are beautiful and he is handsome that doesn't guarantees a successful relationship. Nop before getting in a relationship please clarify your feelings towards them. Dont just go right in because you are feeling something,as those feelings might be the feelings of liking not loving.
And people realise later in the middle of the relationship that the relationship doesn't have chemistry and they were just fascinated by the outside looks.
5. Cheating.
Well this is the last one because many relationships broke because of it.
Please if you no longer love someone tell them. Do not let them be in a relationship alone. And not being faithful can destroy the relationship completely.
One thing to outline is that many people cheating are doing it with their exes or friends. Like it is rare for your partner to cheat on you with someone whose a stranger.
One thing is that many people get in relationships while they know that they are still inlove with their ex. And when that ex comes around its either they cheat on you or they leave you.
"People use others to heal their wounds", by the psychologist Anord Zeal.
Please be cautious when in a relationship coz it can either build you or break you.
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