No, we can't go on like this." If you say or hear this phrase a dozen or more times in relation to your almost everything or her mouth, that means something is wrong.
The relationship is certainly not going to get stronger and with each passing day, bad habits are sure to make your relationship just wither! So that this does not happen, here are some tips:
Avoid the 9 mistakes that undermine any relationship!
1. Do not share quality time
If there's anything essential to making a relationship work, it's the time you spend together.
Devoting part of your life to friends and family is okay, but you shouldn't neglect your partner. It is important that you find the perfect balance.
Also, contrary to what many couples think, watching television together, for example, does not mean that they are in fact spending time together and enjoying time together.
Marital interaction is important in the dynamics of love.
2. Let the charm fade
As the relationship progresses in time, the compliments fade until they are practically nonexistent.
It is true that the relationship has grown, each one knows the best and the worst of the other and they are more than sure of the future and the path they will have to travel together, but that does not mean that they don't have to remember certain things to each other - like that color that looks good on you or the beauty of your green eyes - little treats that help get through the day easier and, of course, with a smile on your face.
The opposite will only cause even minimal damage to the couple's hearts and make the routine a sad companion for both of them.
3. Not knowing how to listen
Communication is vital in a happy relationship. But understand that communicating is not just talking. It is also passive listening.
It is essential and fundamental. However, your partner often needs your opinion, so passive listening is not nodding your head.
4. Focus on the moment and dedicate that time to your partner
Poor or deficient communication creates conflicts that are difficult to resolve and overcome.
5. Permanent complaints
Constructive criticism is always welcome, not only in a love relationship, but also in all kinds of relationships. But be careful!
They can easily cross the "line" and go from constructive criticism to malicious and constant criticism. This is something that wears down any relationship, rather than making it grow and evolve in a healthy and strong way.
6. Try to mold the other in our image and likeness
The couple does not have to be or do what you want! There are always certain characteristics in the other that we can only accept, without trying to shape our path.
Focus on improving your behavior and temperament and that will be a much more attractive incentive than the force of stubbornness. And so it may be that most of everything changes for you and becomes, in your eyes, even better.
7. Avoid problems and arguments
Discuss, debate and debate. Is it something you do regularly? The solution is dialogue. Many couples make the grave mistake of pretending to agree on a particular issue when, in fact, they do not.
By not talking about the problems, the dreaded arguments are avoided. This attitude is not good for your relationship, as, over time, this will cause resentment to grow in you visibly and uncontrollably.
In fact, the best thing to do is talk. Face your problems and differences with maturity and share your feelings with each other, wholeheartedly.
8. Promises, promises
The basis of any relationship is trust, so please promise. Promise what you can keep. Be realistic and careful. The lie crumbles the delivery. The folds like.
9. Testing peer loyalty
Surely this has crossed your mind? Do not test the love of others! The loyalty of the other, the loyalty of the other. It will affect your confidence, the confidence of the person next to you and it will not solve any problem. Stop this kind of behavior!
Avoid this type of behavior! And believe that your relationship with your partner will improve with the application of this advice!
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