In a relationship, people are there for each other's comfort. If you make someone feel at ease and joyful, they will stay. They may not have any cause to leave if you establish a welcoming environment. People look for different things in a relationship, and if you don't give them what they want, you may lose your spouse. This is why:
1. Excessive toxicity.
Nobody wants a partner who can yell at them whenever they want. No one wants a spouse who is negative about them. There are limits to things, and when you cross them, you are genuinely being too poisonous. People want to feel secure in the company of their spouse. If you push the boundaries too often, you can find yourself waking up to a note from your partner dismissing you.
2. Being untrustworthy.
If you can't help with something or can't do something because something else is preventing you from doing so, don't be afraid to say so and explain why. Your lover won't be happy if you constantly give them the impression that they can come to you at any time and then you let them down. It's preferable to have an understanding because it'll be easier to discuss and explain yourself if you disappoint. Let's say you made a date and didn't show up; that's also humiliating.
3. Being oblivious to others' feelings.
Most people wish to have someone with whom they can discuss everything. Your partner is a human being with interests other than being your partner. You shouldn't constantly expect your partner to be aware of what's going on in your head throughout the day. Because your partner cannot read your mind, if you desire something, you should say it. It'll be very rude of you to start a fight because he or she didn't do anything you thought they should have done because you assumed they knew what you wanted. That will make your spouse very uncomfortable, and you may as well wake up to a perfectly written letter saying, "I'm sorry, but I can't do this any longer."
You must be sensible while caring for your partner if you want to keep them without too much stress.
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