Most women have come to believe that most men are not trustworthy, they have commitment issues and they are easily tempted, but this is not always the case.
Yes,men do cheat but not ALL of then though you just met a bad one.Why do men cheat?, Here are some reasons they may come as a surprise.
1.The most common reason and course of infidelity from men is that they do not want to be over-demanding when it comes to the bedroom.Men know that they are too demanding when it comes to doing the deed and that is their weekness.
They do not want to expose their weekness to their wives or girlfriends because women take this as their advantage and use it against them which leaves them helpless.Cheating helps men to avoid being helpful in this regard.
Having another women on the side helps them to satisfy their desires and relieve themselves as much as they want without being labelled as addict's or crazy.
2. The second reason why most men cheat is because they lack discipline.Cheating doesn't always mean that you men does bo longer love you but had everything to do with discipline.
They don't know how to control and to be incharge of their own hormones and feelings.They like to satisfy their urge without thinking of the consequences of doing that with someone either than their partner.
Unlike women, men are always ready for the deed 24/7 anywhere and anytime because of thats they are tempted to cheat on their partners.
BUT HOW CAN I AS A WOMEN SPOT A CHEATING MEN AND PUT AN END TO HIS CHEATING WAYS?
• The first thing that you should do as a women is to STOP LOOKING FOR SIGNS OR WAITING FOR MISBEHAVIOUR!.
Trust plays a vital role is any relationship and having little trust in your party can also lead to him cheating.
You can rearely spot or find your men cheating if they know that your looking for evidence and proof because they are smart.
Don't be insecure just enjoy your relationship until the evidence brings itself to you and it becomes evident without a doubt that he is cheating on you.
SO WHAT CAN YOU DO ABOUT THIS CHEATING?
•You need to first Change the mindset that your cheating men doesn't love you and find out WHY he is cheating.Is it you or something your NOT doing or DOING?, or is it MISCOMMUNICATION in your relationship?.
Most of the time it's not about him not loving you anymore but miscommunication or something that's missing in your relationship but not a huge aspect that be believes could course breaking up in your relationship.
If you find out that your men is really cheating on you then it is wise to site down and communicate.
Ask why he is cheating and how you can BOTH fix your relationship and marriage.
No one is beyond redemption so learn to forgive sincerely when they apologize and promise to change their bad behaviour.
FINALLY, YOU NEED TO KNOW WHEN TO WALK AWAY!.
• IF your cheating partner doesn't show any remorse and any effort to fixing your relationship and cheats again then it's time for you to move on....
You deserve to be happy, respected and loved unconditionally aswell.
Being a forgiving person who believes in second chances does not make you a fool, their is power in forgiveness.
Many relationships have made it through infidelity and have been more happier then they were before.
Second chances are for smart people who use them wisely, only a fool misuses a second chance, so move on to better.
There are better men out there who will value and appreciate you and respect your dignity even when your not in their prey and you will find that men.
Never stop loving because of a fool who doesn't appriciate you.
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