Did you know that most women never really experience the joy and satisfaction that comes with a real relationship with a real man? You may have experienced brief periods in their youth, but almost no woman enters into a relationship where her toes remain curled up.
However, we still have a chance. But you should know that it won't be very dramatic. You will be on your way to a real relationship once you put in more effort and time for yourself and stop settling for less and asking for more, but not too much.
Happiness comes from a balanced commitment. You don't have to become Princess Picky or like the many shallow women who never consider a man and immediately reject him unless he drives a brand new sports car, at least six feet tall, has an ivy high school graduate , perfectly tanned, muscular. as an underwear model and absolutely single!
It is good to aim high, but if your goals are too high in the sky, they can fly and you will never reach them. It is a common trap for women to fall in love with everything on the surface of a man and not look at the deeper truth that defines or destroys a long-term relationship.
The good on the outside cannot be the same on the inside. Haven't you heard all about the typical divorce that occurs when two young couples marry and break up as quickly as they got together?
Society today is full of examples of unhealthy and unbalanced relationships. On the flip side, when you don't fall in love with the ordinary playboy and choose someone who is a little shy but real. You can, of course, find yourself in a relationship where real affection is regularly exchanged.
Real men aren't the types stereotyped in Hollywood movies. Real men have real jobs, real friends, and real hobbies. A real man is the average man. These can be people who work in a hospital, factory, office, or community recreational facility.
They are the unsung heroes who cook, clean, advocate, repair, build, fix, draft, negotiate, sell, and help build our nation, and each night they quietly walk home to their wife and children. It is normal for him to fail at times, and it is up to you, as his wife and supporter, to remind him to fulfill his marital obligations to love you.
This is why happy couples learn to compromise. Time and again, it is the women with the happiest relationships in the whole world who manage to get their expectations of their husbands right. It is about a balanced compromise.
They don't put their desires too high, but neither too low. It's OK. Try it. And that's how you find a nice and confident man who is there for you when you need him.
He may not have perfect abs or a super expensive new sports car, but he has a loyal heart and a stable lifestyle. But the most important thing is your man.
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