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To Improve In Something You Need To Fail A Thousand Times.

Royal Greetings Everyone,


Improvement at anything is based on thousands of small failures, and the extent of your success is based on how many times you’ve failed at something. 


If somebody is better than you at something, then it’s likely because they have failed at it more than you have. 


If someone is worse than you, it’s likely because they haven't been through all of the uncomfortable learning experiences you have.


A baby trying to learn to walk, the baby will fall down and hurt itself hundreds of times. 


But at no point does the baby ever stop and think, “Oh, I guess walking just isn’t for me. I’m not good at it.”


Avoiding failure is something we learn at some later point in life.


Most of it influenced by our education system, which judges based on performance and punishes those who don’t do well. The pressure also from our parents and figures we look up and the media constantly telling us that you must avoid failure you must always be perfect but to be perfect you must fail many times without failure you don't know what to correct or work on more.


We should always feel free to fail, and let failure move us forward. 


Failure is always viewed as a negative phase in your life but it's actually a more positive phase in your life it means you're trying something rather than not trying because you are avoiding failure. 


Think about it how many of you would be actually driving a car right now if you had chosen to avoid failure? 


Failure forces you to create solutions and get out of your comfortable zone. It encourages you to think out-of-the-box within your failures.


When someone fails remember it's because they are trying give people room to make failures because sometimes the best teacher in life rather than advice is letting someone fail at something themselves.


This is why God and our Ancestors don't sometimes intervene or guide you in some factors of your life. 


Sometimes you may even feel as

if your Ancestors are being ignorant to your pleading or your may even feel as if God doesn't hear your prayers. 


Sometimes you have to go through the failures because within the failures of your life and if you decide not to avoid them but rather learn from the experience of your failures a new you is born.


Failure establishes the opportunity of self-correction and experience needed to move you forward in life. 


Some of you are constantly in relationship after relationship because you are refusing to look at your relationship failures what is it that you need to be learning from them no matter who was in the wrong or right. You are constantly dating a different person with the same values the previous person had and expecting a positive difference in the relationship. When you do this you are not allowing yourself to learn from your failures. 


The failures you go through in life God and your Ancestors allow them to happen for your own good but then you need to allow yourself to be a benefit from your failures 


Learn from the experiences , create solutions from the failures and move forward from the failures rather than repeating the failures.


It is not the responsibility of God and your Ancestors for them to accept failures in your life but within your failures when you accept your responsibility your part. 


They will guide you through the process of learning from your failures , they will provide you with solutions, ,advice , suggestions and alternative ways to remedy your failures and turn them into your greatest victories and testimonies.


So the message is do not avoid your failures and do not be embarrassed of your failures.


Please always remember, ancestors are not the same.

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