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'Ladies please advice me if l can leave my kids with my husband or not' - OPINION

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I am a 47 year old woman, married for 6 years now, o my problem is this. Ever since I was a child my dream was to be independent I did not want to get married and I never wanted kids. I told my self I will study, gain money, be a successful business woman and when I start getting old I will adopt a child. That was my dream and I was determined to make it come true


I studied, finished my studies, got a good job and I was doing well with my business. So it happened that my 2 younger sisters got married and had kids, then that's where all the problems began. I started getting insulted by people even my friends they said I am bewitched I have spiritual husband, and all that


I did not mind because I knew it was lies then it got worse with my parents, they started to insult me every time I go visit them, my 2 younger sisters too they even started to disrespect me. I was very disappointed I could not expect t that from my own family


So I decided to give up and I got married and had two kids, mind you I got married to a loving husband. Now the problem is I just don't support to feel that I am under someone, or I have to be submissive


I hate it when my husband tell me to do something I feel like am so cheap. I have supported it but I am beginning to let go. I am always moody and mad against my husband even for nothing I don't love him anymore. I can't even take care if my own kids they have a nannyI just don't support the fact that I have to think twice before doing anything, because I have a husband and kids it's getting mad I even feel depressed sometimes. I feel like divorcing and leave the kids to my husband and just go leave alone peacefully, the life I have always dreamt of but I am also thinking I have a lovely family what would my kids think of me and my husband


Please help me with your advice what should I do because I just can't take it anymore, I will be reading comments thank you


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