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9 Things Parents Should Stop Doing in Front of Their Children

Children are prone to mimicking their parents' actions. If you do a lot of things when your youngster isn't looking, this could be lessened. Some of the things you should never do in front of your child are listed below:


1. Confront your partner and argue or quarrel with them.

Couples that live together are going to have disputes. Arguing in front of your kids isn't exactly a good parenting model. You must keep your angry emotions in check during disputes and make sure that your issues are settled behind closed doors.


2. Spending an inordinate amount of time with electronic devices


It's likely that your youngster spends a lot of time on devices (tablets, phones, or computers) since they've seen you do so. Child psychologists strongly advise you to put down your phone or tablet and spend more time reading books, playing outside, and engaging in stimulating activities with your children.


3. Making fun of them and tormenting them in front of others, especially in public

It may appear amusing to tease your child in front of others, but it can harm him or her from the inside out. Negative attitudes and worries about different parts of life, as well as a lack of confidence, will emerge in your youngster. Making fun of or publicly humiliating your children can have a negative impact on their life.


4. Becoming enraged

Anger is a human feeling that we all experience at some point in our lives. It's natural to get upset when you're a parent. Anger, on the other hand, can be detrimental, particularly when displayed in front of children. Every time you lose your calm, you establish fear in their minds. As a result, they'll stay away from you.


5. Mistreating and disparaging the less fortunate

When it comes to disparaging or mistreating the less fortunate, parents serve as role models for their children. Your child looks up to you, and what you do affects them directly. Making a derogatory remark about someone will have a detrimental impact on your child. Furthermore, they would start acting in the same way you do with other people. It also produces a poor impression that may lead to derision. A positive parenting program teaches parents how to create happy, peaceful, and sociable children.


6. Swearing at your spouse

Never believe that using swear words or other offensive language in front of your children is OK because they will not understand. They'd unwittingly start emulating you because they find it humorous. Using foul language on a regular basis will quickly become a habit.


7. Competition


When our children thrive in academics, sports, or other extracurricular activities, we all rejoice. Parents, on the other hand, frequently miss the fact that their high expectations can put their children under undue stress. If they do not comply, you may be disappointed. Every youngster is different and has different abilities. Reward them for even the tiniest accomplishments.


8. Consumption of alcoholic beverages and smoking in the presence of children

Smoking and drinking in front of youngsters should be avoided because they may begin to explore at an earlier age. When you smoke, it is not only harmful to your health, but it is also harmful to your children due to passive smoking. They can cause a range of health issues, including respiratory problems, asthma, and ear infections, among others.


9. Bribery

"Daddy, what do I get if I behave nicely in the supermarket?" A toddler was overheard questioning in a grocery. I debated whether or not I should pay heed to the response. "You'd get a happy family," the father said with a smile. Bribes do not teach youngsters respect or responsibility. Use effective parenting techniques that are both child-centered and reward-oriented.

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