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'After Having a baby l realized That a Woman Cannot do the Following' ||OPINION

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By YourNews | self meida writer
Published 26 days ago - 8 views

After having a child, I realized that in the eyes of society mothers can't:


If you complain, they will ask you a difficult question like who told you to have kids? Like really, so a mother but not complain about anything ?


If you cry you will heare the questions like, why are you crying, did you think it was easy? What type of question is that because we are all human beings


Mothers get tired too and they need that time to rest but someone will be like, getting tired of what because you do nothing and the baby cannot make you tired. Oh no, having a baby is the hardest thing ever


If you try to sleep, you will look like a lazy mother, who does nothing but keep complaining. Mothers deserve to be treated like queens let them sleep and rest

- Rest (you'll have plenty of time for that after they grow up) 

Getting pregnant again, are you cr_zy? How many more kids do you want? Quitting work, the story will be, how will you support your child? What exactly is needed


If you look for a job because you have to support the child. Your close friends will ask, who will take care of your kid. Leave them at the nursery, the story will be like (Don’t let others raise them)


If a mother decides to be a house wife, stay at home and raise kids. They will then say ' poor husband, works too hard and his wife stays at home. Being single, it will be like 'nobody wants a woman with kids

- Going out for fun (why are you leaving your son with grandma to have fun?)


And you know whats worse, 90% of these phrases are spoken by other women. Let's learn to be more supportive of each other


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