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8 Things You Always Keep A Secret, Number 8 Is Super Important: OPINION

Ms.Mhlongo
By Ms.Mhlongo | self meida writer
Published 19 days ago - 0 views

This article is about the eight things you should try and avoid sharing or talking about with other people. By so doing, you develop a healthy zone of peace within yourself.

NUMBER 1: Your secrets and embarrassing things you know about other people.

One thing you should always remember is that gossiping does not make you look like a good person. This way you also show that you lack confidence and are trying to make yourself look better by undermining the value of others.

NUMBER 2: Your Property

Most people cannot wait to start bragging when they buy something new, whether it is a car, house, clothes or anything else that money can buy; However, this behaviour is a clear sign of low self-esteem, and such people usually have big personality flaws. They use material possessions to hide their flaws and seek attention. Try not to brag and avoid making yourself appear shallow.

NUMBER 3: How Much You Earn

Your income is definitely something others should not be familiar with. Talking about money is often unpleasant because you can never be sure about another person's financial situation, and if you find yourself in the company of a person who talk about finance, they are likely very insecure and they need constant approval.

NUMBER 4: Your Goals for the Future

Being proud and satisfied with your life and achievements is perfectly fine, but sharing your future goals before you achieve them is not a good idea. Research reveals that you are much more likely to achieve your goals if you do not share them with anyone.

NUMBER 5: Doing things for others

Social media is full of videos of people who have helped a homeless person, a sick man or an orphan child, and that is a good thing - But sharing your good deeds with the rest of the world makes you look like you are using the poor person to get attention. Good deeds are valuable when left untold.

NUMBER 6: Your beliefs and Preferences

We all believe in something different and we have different preferences in life; however, sometimes our own choices, beliefs and principles are not that bad topic to discuss, it's just that people go too far and try to impose them on others - That is wrong.

NUMBER 7: How Brave You Are

A real Her will never share their heroic acts, probably this is why most superheroes we see in movies wear masks and try to hide their identity. If you consider yourself a hero, leave the praising to others.

NUMBER 8: Family Issues

There is not a single family without problems, some are big, some are small, but we all have them. Stop sharing them, that can break your family, trust and unity.

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