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Please stop wearing these 3 things:

1) Stop wearing the guilt of your past

guilt and regret about the past aren’t serving your present. In fact, because of that guilt, you are not fully enjoying your current life. Whether it is guilt about letting go of something in your closet that you spent too much on, or guilt about a past relationship or anything in between, you have paid enough with your money, time, attention and emotion, you can stop paying now, let go, apologize forgive and choose to live free of guilt and regret

2) stop wearing the pressure to prove yourself

I rarely bought clothes because I actually needed more clothes, I had plenty, instead I purchased clothing to feel a certain way and to be perceived a certain way... to prove myself. I wanted to feel smart, beautiful and loved I wanted other people to think I was those things too.

I tried to prove who I was by what I wore and by what I accomplished, The problem was that there was always more to prove and eventually I forgot who I was in the process.

3) stop wearing the weight of other people’s expectations and judgment

one of the most astounding realization I made, is that no one cared what I was wearing. No one even noticed, why was I trying to please anyone with my clothing choices? Why was I trying to please anyone with my life choices?

giving myself permission to let go of my need to meet other people’s expectations or to feel any kind of way based on judgement (good or bad) helps me to trust myself and allows me to love my life regardless or outside feedback .

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