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ADVISE FROM A FEMALE COP
I am a detective working for the SAPS in GBV-
F-femicide and GBV-M
l just want to give advice to all the ladies who
are in physically abusive
Justice is not always served in most of my cases because
of loopholes and mistakes that most victims
I know some of this may sound impossible
and the first advice we always give you is to
LEAVE that relationship/marriage.
But in most cases my victims never want to leave.
So basically if you decide to stay, here are
some tips that will protect you if it happens
he abuses you
because he might. Also if it happens you
decide to get him arrested and you want him
to serve punishment for his actions,or if it
happens you assault him in self defence.
1. OPEN AS MANY CASES AS YOU CAN.
Even if you still want to go back to him, and
withdraw the cases, open as many of them
as you can ,every incident,open a case, even
if you will withdraw them later but do it ,open
and withdraw, its fine ,it's your right.
Those withdrawn cases are filed in the police
stations archives,they'll speak for you one
2. HAVE A HIDDEN DIARY
A book ,not in your phone but a hard copy where we will be able to compare your hand writing and sign at the end of every entry,write down every incident.
Tell your friends, family, people
who will testify on your behalf.
4.MAKE SURE YOU TAKE PICTURES or VIDEOS
If you feel you are in trouble/danger, set up a
video in secret or a hidden camera ,you will
never know the day of your death or danger.
5. OPEN A PROTECTION ORDER
Although it won't stop the abuse but it will definitely work for you as prove that you were
6. GO SEE A DOCTOR
Always see a doctor,tell your Doctor the truth of what happened.Not "I fell from the stairs..."
Tell him the truth so that he can testify for
you and by referring on his clinical notes
from your file of what you told him.
7. KEEP EVIDENCE
Such as your bloody
clothes,the objects he used to assault you
and right on your diary with a reference.
Do anything that will help you tomorrow.
With the story of Namhla,the suspect
is still out there because there's no enough
evidence to prosecute the docket, yes social
media is making noise with all they think is
enough evidence to arrest him but what ever
is there is not aligned with the law.
There are pictures of her injuries,but how do we
prove that those injuries are as a result of his
assault.Other than that she has never
opened a case against him before, and the
day of the shooting it was the two of them
no witnesses, no links.
It will be difficult for the detective to hold him countable
Please ladies,take good care of yourselves
Advice from Unknown cop.
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