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After I paid R80 000 for Lobola this is how she cooked first day at home - BANTER

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By BSM_NEWS24 | self meida writer
Published 24 days ago - 26034 views

I know I post a lot of my own cooking but my wife is the real cook in our house. She works long hours so I take care of it mostly. But when she cooks it becomes very hilarious because she is not used to Kasi food lifestyle and I am a Pedi man.

The whole marriage thing, I really don’t expect something that’s half of the Deen to be easy. That’s why I so much respect married working women. You are married and are working. I mean can life be more stressful?

Surely he is not marrying her for her cooking skills! What is she doing at the in-laws anyway, after lobola? There umembeso nomabo still to be covered before the rest of the in-laws know about her cooking skills and more.

Enduring love provides enduring lift through life's trials. An enduring marriage results when both husband and wife regard their union as one of the two most important commitments they will ever make.

Marriage definitely impacts the dynamics of personal life; why one must be deliberate with the choice of partner. It’s for your good that you’re with a partner that’s indeed worth every sacrifice that comes with being married. Mom gave me 1 piece of advice that I lived by. She said to only marry someone that you can live with the rest of your life without them ever changing. We have so much fun. For me marriage is marrying your best friend plus lots of romance.

My biggest piece of advice is to ride in the backseat. It is so much easier to keep them happy if you're right there. We stop every 2ish hours for a carseat break and to feed. I'm dm you a few more things we do on the road. It's important to have healthy boundaries in your life but it's more important to make sure your spouse is inside of them.

It’s been a trip rewiring my brain to think of marriage/kids/family positively. I didn’t think I deserved those things before or that I was strong enough to be better than my parents and break the cycle. It feels good to finally know my life can be better and I can create love.

Having someone in your life who wants to talk with you every day, who knows your worth, and loves to do life with you.

Pillars of a life-long & successful marriage:

- Having trust & keeping trust.

- Clear boundaries on authorities & responsibilities.

- Unconditional love, care & support

- Right combination of masculine & feminine energy,

- Common goal,

- Willing to be responsible parents.

Small goals deserve big praise. I received a certificate in Marriage and Family Therapy. Man has brought me one step closer to receiving my masters and I would like to thank God for showing me what my true passion in life is.

Marriage life is full of excitement and frustration: * In the first year of marriage, the man speaks and the woman listens. * In the second year, the woman speaks and the man listens. * In the third year, they both speak and the neighbors listen.

Friend of mine also met her hubby on Tinder. After chatting for a few weeks they met for coffee, a few dates later moved in together. A month later bought a house together, few weeks later he proposed, lobola was paid up in less than 6months and they got married 2/3months later.

In our relationship with God, we must learn to be vulnerable and allow God into every crevice of our life. The shame, the lies, the good and evil/bad deeds, our thoughts.

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