ADULTS WHO ARE STRUGGLING TODAY WERE CHILDREN ONLY YESTERDAY.
Many Who battle addictions and bondages first encountered the snares of the enemy as children. Many women who today are engaged in prostitution were raped or molested as children or teens.
Pornographic addictions that breed sexual abuse and perversion usually begin at preteen or in the early teen years. Many of the men and women in prison are there for using or selling illegal drugs.
Many began their addictions in their teenage years, never knowing where their addictions would eventually lead. Many male homosexuals began experimenting with homosexual acts at a very early age.
Some were actually molested as children by older men and others entered into the lifestyle in their teen years. The enemy selects his victims when they are but children. The enemy is fully aware of the importance of early teaching, and he plans strategies against our seed when they are still young children.
At an early age children are very emotionally, sensitive and mentally impressionable This is why we are instructed: Train up a child in the way he should go and when he is old he will not depart from it" (Prov. 22:6).
The seeds of the gospel must be planted into the tender soil of the hearts of children before time, circumstances, and pressures from the world form a callus on their hearts.
P. Stone. KDG
LOOKING FOR A WIFE?
As a man looking for a wife the following considerations should be made..
There is no good or bad women it all depends on management. With poor management a good woman can show a man hell. You can live with an evil woman in peace for years with a good management skill.
There is no one size fits all, what works for them may not work for you. Love is not an emotion it is an action word govern by principles, sacrifices and faithfulness.
Your values should be well communicated and your intentions should be well understood to avoid disastrous assumption. Ladies are good incubators and followers.
Pay attention to your personal hygiene, always keep your under pants clean, have a clean shave in appropriate areas and always smell good. A lady can detect all these in less than 30mins you spend with her. Guys, ladies are smarter than you think.
Your spiritual antenna should be at a perfect working condition. Your prayer life and your worship life should not be compromised for anything. Accept Jesus into your life if you have not done so because that is your guaranteed victory.
Have a mentor. Someone you are accountable to, someone that can call you to order. Any man not under any authority is a dangerous person. You become a god to yourself.
Before thinking of having a wife, at least have a house even if it is an empty room without a foam and have an income no matter how small.
Finally, start learning to respect all the woman in your life. The way you talk to woman and children and your actions towards them should demonstrate love and care. KDG
SEX, LOVE AND VIRGINITY!!!
A lot of girls complain that guys walk away from them simply because,they refused giving them sex, some are even tempted to give away their virginity just to keep the guys.
Let me be very blunt here...
Virginity may not be the real reason why the guys go away, yes, no doubt, there are several guys who want sex, and if they don't get it, they walk away...The problem may not be the virginity or the sex..
The story of the Ten virgins in the Bible reveals that both the wise and the foolish were virgins; the other Five were not allowed seeing the bridegroom not because they were virgins or because they lost their virginity...
NO! But because they were foolish and they were called foolish because they had no EXTRA_OIL. And the EXTRA OIL here is CHARACTER!
Most girls do not have extra oil to sustain any relationship, while many brag about their virginity, that's all they have to offer.
Aside your virginity, what do you have to offer to a man?
- Can you support him spiritually?
- Can you support him physically?
- How about mentally?
All you do is demand money for bag, shoes, clothes, and outing, making him spend unnecessarily.
Have you ever sit him down, and you help him plan about his future?💭He said
Has he ever seen you as someone he can confide in? How many times has he come being in a state of dilemma seeking advice from you?
Rather than jumping from one club to another. And for the virgins, they forget that virginity ends after the wedding, but EXTRA OIL continues...
Yes... Nobody is perfect...
We all have our bad sides...
Try to be a woman that a man will always regret losing for the rest of his life...
Be that woman that your man can never afford to lose to another man.
Build your man to your taste...
And stop looking for a ready made husband.
Force yourself on that rich dude that you didn't work with to achieve what he has...,
And hear the story of your life from him one day. Did You Work With me to achieve all I've got? Ever since you've entered this house... What has added to what you met?
There's just nothing as best as building up your man yourself.
And you will forever earn his respect.
I hope this piece of advice is useful to all singles and married? KDG
DEAR YOUNG LADIES OF 24YEARS AND ABOVE AND MEN AT THE AGE OF. 28YEARS AND ABOVE
Don't make mistakes some of our Fathers or Senior Brothers made.
Marry now with the little you have. Don't wait to
be a millionaire, Have kids early so you can grow with them. Grow with your kids and succeed with your wife. You will never finish making money or achieving your plans. You might still not succeed at your target year. So start your life early, with consistency you will grow.
My father said this to me: When I was 25, I was
talking about making billions before I marry.
Many years later, billions didn't come, yet no kid
no wife... I had an opportunity to marry the most beautiful love of my life very early, But my fear was, can I really take care of her? But right now She's married with four grown up children.
The guy that married her was still schooling then, but had the courage.
They worked hard and succeeded together.
So please if you can feed yourself, you can
feed your wife. You have to believe it, marry
early, don't wait. Stay away from abortion.
Don't make our mistakes, I see my childhood friends play with their kids.. Most of them are not doing as well as me.. But they
are happier with their families..
Trust me it isn't money only, but Rather your Maturity, your happiness depends entirely on your wisdom and the way you Handle Life. with
a well planned life they are happier.
Trust me it isn't money, What is our problem? Build mansion? buy the latest Car in Town? marry Sharon stone type? but still we don't have those things we dreamt of and of course the years we wasted, we can never have them never!!! Please don't be 60yrs old and your kids will still be in their 20's..What are you supposed to be at that age? Their grand father. Please young men, take my advice seriously.
Marry, don't be afraid, that girl/man you are finding too many fault in has many good qualities if you look well. Don't think you will get every thing before you settle down. With a good determination and focus with your wife/husband by your side, we will succeed
by God's grace....Amen.
THIS IS JUST MY OPINION. IT MAY NOT APPLY TO EVERYONE. KDG
WHO ARE U DECEIVING ?
You got angry in church and stopped being the member of the choir, left ushering, stopped sanctuary cleaning and every other work you were doing in church. Eventually you've stopped going to the church because someone spoke to you in a way you didn't like...
Most of the messages from the pulpit was against you from your opinion...
Nobody called you when you were sick because according to you, "they do not love or care in the church..."
But pls excuse me...
You've not stopped working for the boss who insults you most of the time, neither have you stopped work because your colleagues spoke ill of you... (Money was the reason)
When you were sick, you didn't wait for your boss to call you or look for you at work. Rather, you called and told him about your present condition.
No complaint about him not visiting you (Fear of query or loss of the job)
Do you remember that at school, your teachers, your schoolmates and or even your best friends offended you, yet you didn't stop schooling..
You can easily miss Church but not lectures because the lecturer will take attendance which counts in assessment
You can be late with your appointment with God at Church but you will be extra early for your visa interview at the embassy...
Who are you deceiving?
I don't blame you too much. Maybe you don't know or you don't have adequate revelation about Church...
Please, Hear Me! Church is not a "No Offense Club" where all things must be done to please you and you alone.
What have you done in church for the good of others?
According to Scripture the first knowledge everybody must have about Church is that... It's The House Of God and The Gate of Heaven*...
Your service to God must be with reverential fear, honor and respect.
God is watching..
Change your attitude. Shalom.
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