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ENTERTAINMENT

People reacts to what AKA said to DJ Zinhle, read here

AKA have dealt with a lot this year and he's probably still trying to find his way back to who he was prior his fiance's death. AKA lost the love of his life this year, just after they had Lobolo negotiations. While he was still going through that, videos that threatened his career made it to the internet and calls for him to be cancelled began to come like floods and he recently revealed that, he's been diagnosed with clinical depression and we that can be understood.

  1 day ago ago
People reacts to what AKA said to DJ Zinhle, read here

SEX-RELATIONSHIP

"I made sure someone's daughter wakes up to Uncles at her gate" A guy causing a stir on twitter

A guy recently took to twitter a picture of his family as they were standing outside his girlfriend's home. As most people are aware that nowadays when something happens, it will be posted on social media. With that being said out of excitement the guy mentioned that he made sure that someone's daughter woke up to uncles outside her gate.

  1 month ago ago

SEX-RELATIONSHIP

Lobola is dividing the country once again, take a look

Lobola or Lobolo is an African name which comes from some of African languages, sometimes referred to as "bride wealth" is property in livestock or kind, which a prospective husband or head of his family undertakes to give to the head of a prospective wife’s family in gratitude of letting the husband marry their daughter.

  19 days ago ago
Lobola is dividing the country once again, take a look

SOCIETY

Opinion - I think Lobola is just a simple nice word used instead of ‘SELLING’

Lobolo is historical slave trade in which women continue to be sold by their parents to become sexual objects, cleaners and baby makers to their slave owners. Women are bought and sold at a price determined by their family. Lobolo which is now called culture is no different to the general human slave trade hence our grandmothers and the women who came before them were not entitled to own any property and could be replaced at any time by another woman as and when the owner felt she didn't perform(Polygamy).

  2 months ago ago
Opinion - I think Lobola is just a simple nice word used instead of ‘SELLING’

SEX-RELATIONSHIP

Lobolo negotiations without informing ancestors could have bad consequences. People killed by wall

Former president Thabo Mbeki said, "I am an African". Being an African comes with a lot of responsibilities many of which involves our customs. Every tribe in South Africa follow customs laid down by those who came before us. When a man pays Lobolo, this is seen as a major event for both families.

  1 month ago ago
Lobolo negotiations without informing ancestors could have bad consequences. People killed by wall

SEX-RELATIONSHIP

Social Media User Shares Tips On How To Pay Cheaper Lobola

In order to complete a lawful traditional marriage in South Africa, various procedures must be met, including the negotiation of the Lobolo. This negotiation is a critical step toward a legally and culturally recognized customary marriage. A distinction is made between the 'Lobolo' or 'Lobola', a tangible form of asset that serves as an agreed-upon dowry, and the Lobola negotiations, a set of legal customary processes that serve as the fundamental dialogues between the two families and are required to establish the Lobolo and reach a settlement.

  1 month ago ago
Social Media User Shares Tips On How To Pay Cheaper Lobola

FASHION-BEAUTY

The importance of paying lobola and how newly weds should dress in their in-laws

Marriage is important, and it connects families. A single man is often despised in his home. And if you have a wife and a home you get respect from your family members or relatives ,many have gone through this and they know the hardships of being despised or treated differently because you do not have a wife. The bride is expected to move into her new home with her cooking utensils that she will use to make tea for the in-laws, once the guests are gone. According to the traditionalist, lobola was a symbol

  1 year ago ago
The importance of paying lobola and how newly weds should dress in their in-laws

SOCIETY

Opinion: "After paying Lobolo and your wife bake cakes like this" A man posted on Facebook

A man posted on a baking group on Facebook asking people that what can they do if their wife bales something like this. This ended up getting people's attention because truly most of the wives can not bake. This became a joke that as a woman you must take some time teaching yourself how to bake.

  2 months ago ago
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ENTERTAINMENT

Breaking News Dr Musa Mthombeni has done it again for his bride.

Dr Mthombeni pays Lobola "11 months ago, I asked the love of my life to be my girlfriend, today she’s my wife.our cows were well fed" The Dr wrote on his Instagram post. Dr Mthombeni has announced in an Instagram post that he has paid lobola for his bride former Miss SA Liesl Laurie.

  4 months ago ago
Breaking News Dr Musa Mthombeni has done it again for his bride.

SEX-RELATIONSHIP

Opinion : Never pay your own lobolo as a woman

Lobolo can be referred to as dawry, or the bride price. It is a payment made to the bride's family when the groom from is asking for her hand in marriage.  A picture of a successful lobola ceremony between the two families which unites them indefinitely. In the African culture lobolo also refered to as mahadi, is a custom which has been practiced since the beginning of time. This is an important aspect in a wedding in an African society. A wedding can not be celebrated without the lobolo being paid.  Lobolo

  1 year ago ago
Opinion : Never pay your own lobolo as a woman

ENTERTAINMENT

Trending: AKA's Wife Allegedly Took Her Life (Read More)

It is so heartbreaking to find out that AKA's better half Nelle Tembe is no longer alive, she went on to ending it all.She intentionally hopped on the tenth floor in Cape Town at Pepper Club.Her self destruction was brutally deadly, implying that AKA should be truly hurt to find that his significant other would choose to end it all and give up him.

  7 months ago ago
Trending: AKA's Wife Allegedly Took Her Life (Read More)

ENTERTAINMENT

South African men are mocking this guy as he says "weave, nails and makeup is men's responsibility

Since 50/50 came into existence people believe tha both men and women should equally contribute into a relationship, without making it look like a burden of one person or a man. It is morally acceptable for a man to support his wife without being supported to as a man. In our lives that was accepted and a made a good way of living. But that is no longer a case nowadays. A young man posted on his Facebook that majita pads, pantliners, airtime, nails and make up is a responsibility of men. But south African men

  1 year ago ago
South African men are mocking this guy as he says

CRIME

I Lobola a scam or appreciation token to the in-laws?

Lobola or Lobolo in Zulu, Swazi, Xhosa, Silozi and Ndebele (Mahadi in Sesotho, Roora in Shona, Magadi in Setswana, Lovola in Xitsonga), and Mamalo in Tshivenda language, sometimes referred to as "bride wealth is property in livestock, which a prospective husband or head of his family undertakes to give to the head of a prospective wife’s family in gratitude of letting the husband marry their daughter. The uncles and aunts of the groom handle the lobola negotiations, which are formal and follow a set of rules

  1 year ago ago
I Lobola a scam or appreciation token to the in-laws?

SEX-RELATIONSHIP

Young men looking to take a bride here are Negative effects of lobola

Lobola or Lobolo in Zulu, Swazi, Xhosa, Silozi and northern and southern Ndebele (Mahadi in Sesotho, Roora in Shona, Magadi in Setswana, Lovola in Xitsonga), and Mamalo in Tshivenda language, sometimes referred to as "bride wealth is property in livestock or kind, which a prospective husband or head of his family undertakes to give to the head of a prospective wife’s family in gratitude of letting the husband marry their daughter.

  4 months ago ago
Young men looking to take a bride here are Negative effects of lobola

SEX-RELATIONSHIP

“My Husband Wants Me To Cut All Ties With My Baby Daddy”- Sarah

A woman has went on social media to ask for help and also to explain that she has been having a tough time as she wants to understand on whether she will be doing the right thing or not.  Apparently a baby daddy has last seen his child for three days and he stopped coming seeing the child but he sends R500 to support the child.  The woman luckily has found someone and also the very same person wants to marry her and also they have paid lobola already. The woman is asking that the husband wants her to cut all

  11 months ago ago
“My Husband Wants Me To Cut All Ties With My Baby Daddy”- Sarah

ENTERTAINMENT

R1 million for Khanyi Mbau lobola

Lobola or Lobolo in Zulu, Swazi, Xhosa, Silozi and northern and southern Ndebele (Mahadi in Sesotho, Roora in Shona, Magadi in Setswana, Lovola in Xitsonga), and Mamalo in Tshivenda language, once in a while alluded to as "lady of the hour abundance" is property in animals or kind, which an

  8 months ago ago
R1 million for Khanyi Mbau lobola

ENTERTAINMENT

What many don't know about AkA's Lobolo

The musician and his fiancé greatly surprised social media remaining month after Forbes found out that he eventually popped the large query to his younger girlfriend.The duo commenced trending after AKA published a % of Nelli’s ring finger flaunting a stunning engagement ring.

  8 months ago ago
What many don't know about AkA's Lobolo

ENTERTAINMENT

Introduction to the African people know the complete story

To be African is everything that a lot of people won't understand it goes deeper than just the way we dress the way we dress or talk or even the way we think it has to do with the land and our culture New life When a child is born it is very important as an African to introduce that child to the ancestors so that the child behaves and follows the teachings of the family and also when the ancestors visit they can see that the new born is part of family not a stranger Lobolo negotiations For ages the western world

  1 year ago ago
Introduction to the African people know the complete story

ENTERTAINMENT

Ladies, if he hasn't paid lobolo yet, see how to hang his clothes, on a washing line

Sometimes its your duty as a woman, to show your many you are ready to get married. Working yourself hard on household chores won't make him pay lobolo, rather he enjoys free service. Lobolo is a culture, and no matter how much we adapt into western ways of doing things, we mustn't abandon our cultures, we must keep it alive and make.it grow. Be proud of your own culture, being proud of your culture also includes following its customs and respecting its beliefs. Most cultures forbid cohabitation, a lobolo must

  1 year ago ago
Ladies, if he hasn't paid lobolo yet, see how to hang his clothes, on a washing line